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Trinity Services plans second Paint Night fundraiser at ROXY in Lockport
Trinity was founded by a dedicated group of parents in 1950. It was originally a school for children with developmental disabilities.
Trinity serves more than 3,500 children and adults who have intellectual and/or developmental disabilities or mental health needs.
Trinity has a presence in 31 Illinois communities in Will, Cook, DuPage, Grundy, Madison, Peoria, Jackson and St. Clair counties.
Trinity Services plans second Paint Night fundraiser at ROXY in Lockport
Bob Taylor Named Chief Financial Officer of Trinity Services, Inc.
Trinity Services’ New Lenox Woodworks donates handmade Adirondack chair to VFW Post 9545
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'An Evening of Holiday Music’ will offer festive jazz music, delicious dinner in support of Trinity Services
Trinity Services welcomes two new members to its Board of Directors
If you ask employees what it’s like to work for any organization, they are likely to answer based on the relationship they have with their boss. That is a fact of life. “This place sucks—no one ever knows what’s going on. All they do is take advantage of you. They never help you out when you’re hurting. No one tells you anything.”
Of course, the likelihood of positive feelings and experiences are also possible. “It’s a great place to work. I’m trying to get my sister a job here.” In other words, the manager-employee relationship creates the lens through which the employee views the organization.
Some time ago, I came across the term, “vertical couple.” Coined by Daniel Goleman, it describes the relationship we have with those who report to us, and to those to whom we report. Goleman states, “It’s the single most important social bond we develop at work.” His research indicates that the strength of the bond between manager and employee is the prime predictor of daily production and the length of time people stay at their jobs.
Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for first-line managers to take the position without any essential training or chance to practice. Frequently, they are tossed onto the playing field and before too long, when difficulties arise, resort to giving orders on the one hand or doing the work themselves on the other. Management training, therefore, becomes a high priority in organizations pursuing high quality service delivery.
How then does a manager develop that strong bond with his or her team members? Some of the most important actions to be taken include the following.
Communicate face-to-face. While email and phone conversations are often easier, speaking with employees face-to-face offers greater benefits. A manager who takes the time to communicate in person makes a statement about the value he or she places on the relationship with the employee. In addition, both parties in the conversation learn a great deal more from each other as they connect facial expressions, tone of voice and gestures with the words spoken. Furthermore, any positive interaction—be it a passing “Good morning,” or a lengthier interaction in a more formal setting—triggers the release of dopamine, which literally makes learning easier.
Listen actively. Managers who listen carefully and ask questions develop stronger relationships with their employees. Learning about an employee’s responses to job requirements, suggestions for improving processes, and assessment of relational dynamics in the workplace offers a supervisor not only insight into the person’s character and abilities, but also ideas that might enhance team performance and/or culture.
Show interest in employees’ personal lives. Keeping up with an employee’s family and personal interests cements positive connections even further. Captain Michael Abrashoff, well known for having transformed the worst performing Navy crew into the top performer, attributed some of his success to learning the names of the sailors’ family members and making a point to ask about them when he spoke with the crew members. Employees appreciate knowing that they are regarded as valued individuals rather than simply cogs in the company machine.
Be honest. No relationship is stable without trust. Teams in which managers and members work together efficiently is inevitably characterized by honesty. Being able to count on the veracity of any information shared prevents mistakes, misunderstandings and energy-depleting conflicts.
Always follow through. As an outgrowth of honesty, a manager’s commitment to follow through lets employees know that plans and promises require action. Consistent, appropriate action builds bedrock trust while encouraging accountability and establishing a stable environment that promotes high performance.
Express appreciation. Acknowledging the contributions of employees also demonstrates how much a manager values the team members. Appreciation can be communicated with a verbal “Thank you,” an award, a written note or a public announcement. The most effective form of recognition is one that an employee finds most rewarding.
As Goleman reminds us, the manager-employee connection is the basic unit of organizational life. Therefore, the message is clear: we need to prize and prioritize our relationships.
Paint a beautiful picture while supporting Trinity Services.
Join Trinity Services for a free, fun event during the Village of New Lenox's Christmas in the Commons celebration.
Enjoy an evening of fine dining and festive holiday music in support of Trinity Services.
Test your skill at Halloween trivia while supporting Trinity Services.
Enjoy an evening of fine dining, dancing, and silent and live auctions in support of Trinity Services.
Paint a beautiful picture while supporting Trinity Services.
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